The Secret To Getting What We Want In Life.
Are you finding that you often get stuck, get into a slump, never reaching your hopes and dreams?
Well guess what? It’s not just you. There is nothing wrong with us!!!! We are human.
I think we all really know why this happens, and we also know what it really takes to make that change.
I am here as a reminder that this is pretty simple. You can’t change your life if you don’t change your habits.
Our mindset is the key to everything. We can’t even have a good day if we aren’t thinking clearly.
What is the ancient secret to what we want? It’s simple…..
🌞Continually work on our mindset.
🌞Know your values.
🌞Form Habits that produce and lead to the results we want.
🌞Have a daily method of operation.
The mind is a powerful thing. Our perception can become distorted with a negative mind and a victim mentality. If we don’t realize and accept this, our actions will take us on the wrong path and far away from reaching our desired life.
I was diagnosed with depression after going through my divorce. It was hard to hear my Doctor explain this to me. My gosh, I was going through a tramatic situation and I thought that it was because of this that I was feeling the way I was. I was actually shocked because I consider myself a very positive person. Throughout my life and career, I consistently heard the same compliment and that was, “you inspire me”.
It was much deeper than this. He went into the scientific explanations and his treatment recommendations. It opened my eyes to understanding how I am made and how I operate. I am a giver by nature, and I have great empathy for others. I have learned that although this is a wonderful gift that God gave me, I have to have a balance and release of these emotions that I gather and carry from others. To sum it up, I have to continually work on my mindset every part of my day. I do not medicate and prefer to work on the root cause and not cover up the condition.
Listen to podcast, read good books, and live by the power of God’s word. When life happens, this is what helps picks me up and lifts me higher each day. When you become aware of your mindset, you will be surprised at how many negative thoughts arise throughout each day. You simply don’t allow them to blossom when they sprout.
I have strong values and realized that this was another area that is key to having the life I am leading towards. Learn not to compromise in your values.
Habits are vital to accomplishments. If I don’t change my habits, my life will be the same. This is the most simplistic part of the secret. It is all about doing small things consistently, that will add up to changing your whole outcome. If I want to lose those extra pounds, I have to change my daily habits. If I want more income, I have to implement daily habits that lead towards that outcome.
Last year, my oldest daughter taught me to implement a power hour in my daily routine. As a very driven entrepreneur, I can let it consume my day and my joy. Having a specific time of each day where I focus on activities that I need to do for my business, has changed things for me tremendously. I am happier and I have more time freedom. The best part is that I get things done and it feels so good.🙋
I hope this post brings value and light🌞 to you today. Be sure to share your thoughts in the comments below and hit the share button. This may make someones day and could change a life.
I love you and believe in you❤