In life, we must go with the flow of our lives and adjust our sails. Riding in the direction "of" will be much smoother than "resisting against" the current. Empower yourself by looking for the positive in the situation. For every issue, there is a solution. Look for the hidden opportunity.
Do you really want to change your life for the better? If you do, a positive mental attitude is a key. If you make up your mind and work at this through each day you will begin to see wonderful things happening in your life. Fill your soul with positive self-help audio and books. Read the basics by the founder of PMA, W. Clement Stone & Norman Vincent Peele.
Evaluate, Adjust, Change your attitude & Get back up, move forward into the new flow in the most positive way you possibly can.